HI. I am a womanizer, so beware. Also, my breath stinks. Like, really bad. That is all. Thank you 🙂
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There are people who do not simply disappoint you. They construct an entire parallel reality and invite you into it.
Kendrick Salgado spent months doing exactly that. He created a sustained impression of seriousness and intention through constant contact, heavy love-bombing, flowers, chivalry, jealousy, and possessiveness. He spoke about hoping to fall in love and provide for someone someday. The intensity continued long enough that it felt natural to invest fully, step back from other connections, and believe the relationship was moving toward exclusivity even without a formal label.
Then the language shifted without warning. When asked directly whether anyone else was involved, he said no. For three days he sent reassurances that the concerns were unfounded, that there was no one else, and that any hesitation on his part came only from his own insecurities. He framed the other person’s withdrawal as the problem. During those same days of reassurance he was sitting next to the woman he was actually with.
He then disappeared completely.
What remained unspoken the entire time was a serious relationship of a year and a half. In March that woman had left her life in another state and moved in with him. She became close to his child and his family. Shortly after her arrival he initiated a “break,” yet her belongings stayed in the house, they continued exchanging “I love you” and “whenever you’re ready” messages, and there was an understood plan for her return. He pursued and intensified a new connection during this period with no disclosure whatsoever. He knew she was coming back. He spoke and acted as if he were free. When asked the direct question, he lied.
According to her, he also carries HSV and never disclosed it.
When later confronted with the full picture he denied the relationship had existed and denied having lied at all.
This was not confusion or poor timing. It was a calculated parallel involvement maintained while an unresolved, serious entanglement remained in place. It involved direct deception, the deliberate undermining of another person’s intuition, and the decision to withhold information that carried both emotional and physical risk.
Patterns like this do not stay isolated. They tend to repeat.
Kendrick Salgado spent months doing exactly that. He created a sustained impression of seriousness and intention through constant contact, heavy love-bombing, flowers, chivalry, jealousy, and possessiveness. He spoke about hoping to fall in love and provide for someone someday. The intensity continued long enough that it felt natural to invest fully, step back from other connections, and believe the relationship was moving toward exclusivity even without a formal label.
Then the language shifted without warning. When asked directly whether anyone else was involved, he said no. For three days he sent reassurances that the concerns were unfounded, that there was no one else, and that any hesitation on his part came only from his own insecurities. He framed the other person’s withdrawal as the problem. During those same days of reassurance he was sitting next to the woman he was actually with.
He then disappeared completely.
According to her, he also carries HSV and never disclosed it.
When later confronted with the full picture he denied the relationship had existed and denied having lied at all.
Then the language shifted without warning. When asked directly whether anyone else was involved, he said no. For three days he sent reassurances that the concerns were unfounded, that there was no one else, and that any hesitation on his part came only from his own insecurities. He framed the other person’s withdrawal as the problem. During those same days of reassurance he was sitting next to the woman he was actually with.
He then disappeared completely.
What remained unspoken the entire time was a serious relationship of a year and a half. In March that woman had left her life in another state and moved in with him. She became close to his child and his family. Shortly after her arrival he initiated a “break,” yet her belongings stayed in the house, they continued exchanging “I love you” and “whenever you’re ready” messages, and there was an understood plan for her return. He pursued and intensified a new connection during this period with no disclosure whatsoever. He knew she was coming back. He spoke and acted as if he were free. When asked the direct question, he lied.
According to her, he also carries HSV and never disclosed it.
When later confronted with the full picture he denied the relationship had existed and denied having lied at all.
This was not confusion or poor timing. It was a calculated parallel involvement maintained while an unresolved, serious entanglement remained in place. It involved direct deception, the deliberate undermining of another person’s intuition, and the decision to withhold information that carried both emotional and physical risk.
Patterns like this do not stay isolated. They tend to repeat.e people who do not simply disappoint you. They construct an entire
Then the language shifted without warning. When asked directly whether anyone else was involved, he said no. For three days he sent reassurances that the concerns were unfounded, that there was no one else, and that any hesitation on his part came only from his own insecurities. He framed the other person’s withdrawal as the problem. During those same days of reassurance he was sitting next to the woman he was actually with.
According to her, he also carries HSV and never disclosed it.
Kendrick Salgado 